Man o man the court system can be hairy even if paternity determines that he is not the father.  When you are tied into the court system with payments visitation etc it is hard to untie those obligations. 

The court is the overseer to ensure the child is raised and parented and all the legalities followed based on the mother’s testimony. The court also wants to legally not become any form of parenting for the sake of taxpayers.  

Why do I say this confusing stuff? If you are the Chad that women desire, you are playing with legal fire based on court system flaws of today.  Yeah the fling that you having can go legally awry in some way shape or form.  

At my age and current status it is not worth the engagement with women in this country. I had my time in my youth. I am speaking of me and not reference anyone else.  All based on personal observations and experiences.  8-21-2025

Citing from posts my age and the youth of women,  I cannot talk to young women at all and I must wipe away my personal delusions about them listening to me to build their future especially the fairly attractive ones.  If they see me as an atm get pregnant then use the court system to get the child support protocol in their favor.  The natural laws of raising a family are broken due to the culture of today.  Court is the big daddy of disciplinary action to ensure the child in custody gets the money.  Armed with information, the habits living my life must be changed.  Even my taxes pay to the system of child support through public services.  8-20-2025

The safety net system is flooded with every type of applicant that wants an easy out especially with single mothers. The design of good intentions gets flooded with abuse that hard work is not incorporated into the solution to get off the system. What does it mean? For men we are really on our own gathering good relationships and build a stable status in the wilderness of the marketplace.  

Social media became the prime forum over television because of the overbearing cost of cable, satellite etc.

So when gather up some status success the weight is on us to evaluate and choose the fitting woman who is family oriented first.  

At my age the prime is over and I must weigh my limited options of today.  Scammers love free ways to exploit and  practically and legally steal from you with the advent of the internet. Up to us to work through the honest channels of opportunity.  7-18-25

Well going through social media browsing that before you ask a woman on a date, find out if she takes care of the bills and her space.  Likewise your personal space must be shored up as well.  8-17-25

The fb reel where a lady put an ad to date her.  Of course she is good looking for her age her post will go into the dilution of like reels.   The validation rush is there for both sides of the coin. I tolerated with lots of failure outcomes in my last marriage and money management was not of any interest to my ex.  Prices billowed out of control from the economic forces controlled by women like her.  100% financing is legal scamming that made the current economy culture in the US what it is today. 

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/16aU5jbZqs/?mibextid=wwXIfr

This fb post along with camera work shows the core risks dating women today.  Court case doctrine only follows the law even if it enslaves a man. My opinion formed on the basis of the video.