Yeah working in retail I made the adjustments too.   My head explodes just imagining the cost of raising a family.  Young men have the challenges how they want to lead their lives.  Generally it should not be this legally risky. 

I have been watching a few videos lately about a scamming  type culture that is on steroids with seemingly no end in sight.  It is a corporate culture of kingpins and peasants.  Unless their is a worldwide cooperative to end the scamming practices with force shutting them down, the rampant economic decay with continue.  Women’s hypergamy among youth are looking for the husband/chad lottery. Yeah social media with all the half naked hit the like button simping pages made overwhelming validation to those pages into a fairy tale land of the impossible chad.   

Nowadays there is a new primal survival strategy for living with your skills to acquire resources for living.  The convenience era of comfort is over. II doesn’t matter if you have FU money.  The common man needs to just feel he can prosper just by a little bit with his skillset of today. 

The natural laws of a man still apply today.  I am born a man so they all apply to me.  The natural hierarchy of leadership is part of the life.  Positive words are not nearly enough.  Building a constructive physical purpose so you have the means to raise a family based on your terms.  Of course we always have to adapt to current surroundings by making those difficult decisions to live the current ills of today’s manifested culture.  

Yeah it is a royal pain to make these adaptations at my age but no different than any other man.  Peace 

Being the beta mindset in essence providing for the optimism of the future, the advent of social media put on steroids the entitlements without earnings illusion.  Thus the family structure deteriorated greatly therefore social media channels like this one puts the giant caution flag out there to betas the general trends of modern women behaviors. Hence we must get the job done with diligence of our lifestyle habits.  The wisdom of KS is French toast that happiness, we are supposed to become and be adults with all relationships.  Immaturity breeds impatience and destroys the purpose behind our lives.  Yeah the ugly true fact is that discipline is king and you can not lose sight of it. 

Man o man the court system can be hairy even if paternity determines that he is not the father.  When you are tied into the court system with payments visitation etc it is hard to untie those obligations. 

The court is the overseer to ensure the child is raised and parented and all the legalities followed based on the mother’s testimony. The court also wants to legally not become any form of parenting for the sake of taxpayers.  

Why do I say this confusing stuff? If you are the Chad that women desire, you are playing with legal fire based on court system flaws of today.  Yeah the fling that you having can go legally awry in some way shape or form.  

At my age and current status it is not worth the engagement with women in this country. I had my time in my youth. I am speaking of me and not reference anyone else.  All based on personal observations and experiences.  8-21-2025

Citing from posts my age and the youth of women,  I cannot talk to young women at all and I must wipe away my personal delusions about them listening to me to build their future especially the fairly attractive ones.  If they see me as an atm get pregnant then use the court system to get the child support protocol in their favor.  The natural laws of raising a family are broken due to the culture of today.  Court is the big daddy of disciplinary action to ensure the child in custody gets the money.  Armed with information, the habits living my life must be changed.  Even my taxes pay to the system of child support through public services.  8-20-2025

The safety net system is flooded with every type of applicant that wants an easy out especially with single mothers. The design of good intentions gets flooded with abuse that hard work is not incorporated into the solution to get off the system. What does it mean? For men we are really on our own gathering good relationships and build a stable status in the wilderness of the marketplace.  

Social media became the prime forum over television because of the overbearing cost of cable, satellite etc.

So when gather up some status success the weight is on us to evaluate and choose the fitting woman who is family oriented first.  

At my age the prime is over and I must weigh my limited options of today.  Scammers love free ways to exploit and  practically and legally steal from you with the advent of the internet. Up to us to work through the honest channels of opportunity.  7-18-25

Well going through social media browsing that before you ask a woman on a date, find out if she takes care of the bills and her space.  Likewise your personal space must be shored up as well.  8-17-25