Pearl, have you done the hierarchy of modern sexual relationships? From least emotionally fulfilling to most. Meet and smash (often in bathroom or washroom smashed on clothes washer, etc, usually never to be seen again, Chad's are masters of this sex). Fuck buddy (no real emotional connection, just screw weekly or when convenient). Situations hip (May have some emotional connection on this one because it involves more than just sex, there is some situational relationship to). Boyfriend and girlfriend open, (it's understood there dating, but neither has committed to being exclusive, there is emotional connection here, but multiple partners usually exist with one or both participants). Boyfriend and girlfriend with commitment, (Take the previous one and add commitment and generally more emotional attachment).

You get the picture. Percentages of women in each category would be interesting. I think it will really highlight how these women are involved in empty sex with Chad to a high degree. This leads to nice guys not finishing last, but in fact not finishing at all.

Maybe you could do a whiteboard or make this a topic for a pearl daily show.

Pearl, in today's economy with women being high earners more and more often. At my last Engineering job I felt the women had an advantage on promotions. In an industry that's maybe 10% women, but 50% of the bosses are women. For a successful long term partnership to exist it can't be 50/50. Through your 30+ year marriage one of the spouses may out earn the other by 3,4, or 5 times as much. The couple lifestyle will change as that household income changes. Equal burden is a better long term strategy. If one spouse earns 80% of the household income they pay 80% of the household bills. That spouse will still have 80% of the discretionary money in that model. Yes the household bills include: both phones, both cars, etc, etc. Remember a successfully marriage is a life time partnership where both spouses happiness matters.

pearl, so glad to see some new content!  i would like you to create some more content for the older men like me that were married for 28 years only to have their wife leave.  now single.   What to do now?   how to date?  Can we find a woman that values us?     would love to tell you my story if your interested?